FATHERS PRE DIVORCE CHECKLIST
The worst marriage is often better than the best divorce and every effort to preserve the marriage must be taken, especially for the children's sake. However, if you anticipate your wife is going to file against you, you should take the protective measures below. You can always give something back; at least you have control of the assets.
______1. Cancel all credit cards
______2. Clean out all bank and investment accounts.
______3. Collect all bank statements, ___utility bills______ canceled checks___, insurance policies___ and anything in the house that bears a dollar sign and deliver them to your attorney for safekeeping.
______4. Pack a bag and keep it elsewhere This might even include some foodstuffs, locate a potential dwelling .
______5. Contact an attorney experienced in custody cases who has a reputation as a fighter.
______6. Become or remain deeply involved in your children's school activities. Meet with teachers, attend PTA meetings, ball games, etc.
______7. Provide all the child care functions for your child, keep a record of dates and witnesses
______8. Make home movies/take pictures of you and the child together.
______9. Make a Witness List of people who have observed you doing all the above
______10. At the last minute before anything is filed, clean out ALL valuables, guns, jewelry, personal effects, photos that mean a lot to you, etc. from the house and put in storage. Get your wife's empty pill bottles and any mental records. Deny her anything to hock to pay for attorney fees and deny her control of anything she can hold over your head. Assume that whatever you leave in the house will never be seen again. Do this even if you NOW have control of the house. DO NOT MOVE OUT OF THE CHILDREN'S RESIDENCE EVEN TEMPORARILY UNLESS ORDERED BY A COURT! DO NOT LEAVE CHILDREN WITHOUT FOOD, UTILITIES ETC. YOU CAN DIRECTLY PURCHASE THINGS THEY NEED .
______11. DO NOT ACQUIRE OR EXPOSE ANY NEW GIRLFRIEND OR ALLOW HER TO INTERMEDDLE UNTIL THE DIVORCE IS FINAL!!!! This will make things go MUCH smoother. Spend time with your kids instead of dating. Live alone in a place with a bedroom for the kids, full of toys/computers etc if the court orders you out of the marital residence.
______12. DOCUMENT DOCUMENT DOCUMENT, RECORD AND LOG EVERYTHING IN A CHRONOLOGICAL LOG
______13. KEEP AN EXHIBIT LOG, NUMBERING EACH POTENTIAL EXHIBIT AS YOU GO .KEEPING HUNDREDS OR THOUSANDS OF POTENTIAL EXHIBITS ORGANIZED CAN BE A NIGHTMARE. USE EMAIL AND WRITTEN CONFIRMATIONS OF IMPORTANT CONVERSATIONS. CREATE A PAPER TRAIL.
______14 Make NO threats of violence,EVER! Do nothing even remotely threatening or violent. It will totally destroy your case. Bite your tongue, no name calling. Always be quiet , polite and courteous. YOU must be the guy in the white hat. Let her be the vindictive one!
______15 Review this list with a local attorney before use.
This is a CD containing over 100 documents, all the pleadings and documents necessary to litigate contested divorce, visitation, custody , child support, interstate child support, and false allegations of domestic/child violence issues in word perfect format. Mergible files are included so that you can input data into quick data input one time and print out many different pleadings with headings, names ,dates etc automatically placed in the documents. This in effect a law practice on a disc and can replace the services of a legal assistant! Mr. Isaacs uses the exact documents that are on this disc in his successful practice .Included are unique documents & pleadings containing fathers rights arguments available nowhere else. Some of the documents Included are :
Petitions alleging false claims of domestic/child abuse and visitation interference. Petitions for a complex or a simple divorce,
Pleadings used to thwart interstate enforcement of child support orders from states not giving full due process rights and process documents
Motions to continue, to dismiss, to dismiss ex-parte domestic violence orders, for mental exam of spouse or children, for appointment of child's attorney and many other motions used in the normal practice of law.
Motions to disqualify a judge or opposing attorney
Motions for sanctions for contempt of court for not following Court visitation orders.
Entry of appearance, Notices, Subpoenas, deposition notices, discovery requests, financial affidavits,
Orders, pre marriage agreements, settlement agreements and many other documents and pleadings.
These documents allow you to easily use the tactics described in the Fathers Rights books offered with simple editing. These are documents that have ACTUALLY BEEN USED IN COURT TO WIN CASES. With this CD and the Custody/Divorce kit , available by mail from our secure shopsite store, you will have capabilities second to no other lawyer practicing fathers rights.
Use of this product does not establish any attorney- client relationship.
All pleadings should be reviewed by your local counsel